Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Split Shin Injury Effects

The ideal man

spot in an old Alfa Romeo, where the machine is completely ice-skating a Venice, it was said that the most difficult conditions that can give its best. Today I find myself remembering the advertising (for training or professional bias, you see), combined with a contemporary fact very positive. Meanwhile, I state that this post is a pretty revolutionary than the others. It is a good place, which looks at all the good things that surround us, that feeds on the hopes and above all he sees men who work with women to build family balance upright on equality and division of duties and responsibilities. Well, now I think of all the men around me. To those young people like me (do not laugh). I see them cooking for example. Many are also good. I mean, not that you only cook a pasta with a sauce ready, but we make the commitment. A few weeks ago, has made a cr ê pes , for example, also demonstrated some ability to turn them without breaking them (which was taken by the wife, the first reduction in an omelette). They are generally very tidy. I hear stories friends of the exasperated because the comrades beset on cleaning the kitchen, that they, men, glazed with great meticulousness, unlike women, apparently more superficial. Many men go to the grocery store and came home with things that were on the list. Nothing more and nothing less. The only exception is my brother in law, that once I asked him to buy two cucumbers, zucchini is back with two. But we were still young, carefree and without a family. Let's give him the benefit of the doubt. I have seen male friends who spent the rag on the table, after drinking the tea, so, absently, as if it were a natural act now. The same people who just came home they take off their scarpe, le ripongono nella scarpiera e si mettono le pantofole. Insomma, ho visto cose che voi umani non potreste immaginarvi. Non tutti questi uomini provengono da famiglie in cui la madre è morta quando avevano due anni. Anzi, molti di loro continuano ad avere un forte legame con la loro genitrice, che molto spesso, appartenendo ad un'altra generazione, ha una concezione diversa dei ruoli maschili e femminili. Eppure loro sono diversi. Cos'è? Che malattia hanno contratto? Nessuna malattia. Come l'Alfa Romeo dello spot, e come milioni di anni di evoluzione umana, hanno imparato ad adattarsi alle situazioni più difficili. E da quelle più estreme ne sono usciti più forti e indipendenti. Sono degli uomini migliori. E quali sono queste situazioni difficult? Well, for example, to live alone outside the home without afford it. My generation was born precarious and often coexist peacefully enough (or perhaps just resignation), but does not give up this freedom. So, belated than their Anglo-Saxon, these men at some point leave the house and not necessarily to marry. Maybe they are single too. It can be found, alone, to face life with all its tasks. Then, the first week eat only pizza and Chinese takeaway. The second dare to buy a supermarket cold cuts and sandwiches. The third find the dough. The fourth meat. The fifth experiment with the combination of pasta and meat, and so comes the sauce. In parallel, the shopping cart begins to fill even products as "detergent", "floor cleaner", "the abrasive sponge," "the duster." And so, their lives suddenly become dignified. Some, more fortunate, has even made the university away from home, already twenty years learning what it means to look after himself. But I do not dwell too much on this category. If nothing else, because I remember a particularly brilliant in terms of hygiene of the apartments of male students that I attended in the past. It takes a short time.
Of course, now I'll be telling you about all the men who know che portano le camicie a stirare dalla mamma, che si fanno preparare le monoporzioni di lasagne da surgelare, che non hanno mai passato l'aspirapolvere. È vero, esistono. Ma come in una sorta di selezione naturale, questi uomini si accoppieranno con donne predisposte al martirio. E felici di esserlo. Per tutte le altre donne, quelle con un istinto di sopravvivenza più elevato, ci saranno invece uomini temprati dalla vita domestica. Pronti. Autonomi. Uomini che non vogliono essere accuditi come dei bambini di quattro anni. Uomini già predisposti al concetto di parità e per questo, anche più rispettosi nei confronti dell'altra. Ecco, di molti di questi uomini io sono amica, e ne sono orgogliosa. E soprattutto, mantengono in vita my hope for a better world.

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