Several times I have focused on aging (my). Not that this is an obsession, for heaven's sake, but in short, when your child begins to ask when you go to heaven with angels, you start to really think about it. And then, since I turned 35 years old, in my inbox, no one knows how, has begun to dawn on classic spam, a newsletter disturbing. To Federanziani (can not remember if I had already told you, here, see? Are already early signs of AD). Obviously the trash without even opening it immediately, such as e-mail about Viagra. Today, however, not content, wanted to do more, and they sent me another newsletter, also sponsored by Federanziani, called Children and Family Magazine. In other words: we're old, but we love the children. I succumbed to the insistence and I read the first news. Sweetener killer, carcinogenic effects of smoking, Sting, telephone bills, food adulterated. So, where are the children in the midst of all these tragedies? Here comes the bottom of the page and find the answer: Boom of frozen eggs. The over 35 postpone motherhood. Fortunately, at least two eggs I put them to good use and now weigh respectively 20 and a further 13 pounds, otherwise I do not know how I would react to the article. Maybe we talk about it in the next post. Meanwhile, I wanted right next to discuss the news: Paternity mandatory? Women like.
Here. Since I have seen very lively and thoughtful comments in the post " The new family plan (English, of course) " I wanted to deepen the discussion. Then, the article says, in essence, "bla bla bla, bla bla bla" and "bla bla bla." The data is rather this: "According to a poll conducted by women's magazine Elle, 74% of women would welcome the change." Very superficially takes this by saying that it would be the case to be made mandatory paternity leave and that the time is ripe, and abroad are ahead of us and that companies bla bla blah, blah blah blah. It's stronger than me: I can not focus on other attributes of the article, because the fact that 74% of women are in favor of this change struck me as a stroke (which in fact given the age and the lifestyle that I lead, it may well be). Meanwhile, guess who had the idea of \u200b\u200basking women if they are for or against paternity leave. I mean, but you did a survey of men instead? Oh well it was Elle, which is a magazine for women, maybe you should do those of Men's Health, if they were not so busy on the Decalogue of the Perfect Latin lover. However, I would have taken for granted that women would been favorable to this change. And I'd be wrong. In the end, those of Elle had reason to do a survey, because the result shows that not everything goes smoothly. 74% in favor of women also means 26% of women or that otherwise have no opinion on the matter. On large numbers, I'd say there are 260 women in 1000, 2,600,000 to 10,000,000 women in Italy who does not like or would like to know if the men took care of their children as mothers do today. Two million six hundred thousand women. What then, if we refine the sample on a national scale, 26% of the Italian female population counts for the Istat, 29,044,615 members. 26% are about 7,551,599 women. This is significant given the newsletter promoted by Federanziani: that more than seven million women in Italy do not have the slightest intention of sharing the care of children with legitimate fathers. What if they are to work well these men who are not able to do much more. That they continue to deal with their affairs, such as washing machine, change the bulbs and then the plasma. And then if they stay at home as well, who's who runs the cabin? Farewell and goodbye holidays in the village Valtour manicure and styling. It still has never seen a man has to change a diaper. Who knows, maybe these women have tried to imagine the scene: they come home tired from work, with a hungry black, open the door and found her husband on the couch playing with the playstation and the child chews the controller cord. Nothing could be ready to eat. Only crumbs everywhere, dirty dishes and empty fridge. "What have you done today?"
"No, we went for a walk in the park. It's nice, you know there are a lot of young mothers with children. By the way, I think the baby this morning at the park has done a poo."
Well, in some cases it might be. But frankly I think a thought and some stereotypical views as "comfortable" to do. In reality, this poll is clear that women are not really that ready to share in the domestic life and parenthood with their peers. For lack of trust, jealousy of the children, and a sense omnipotence. Who knows. One thing is for sure though, if we are far behind in Italy on social policies and equal opportunities, responsibilities we have a good women, too. Exactly 7,551,599.
"No, we went for a walk in the park. It's nice, you know there are a lot of young mothers with children. By the way, I think the baby this morning at the park has done a poo."
Well, in some cases it might be. But frankly I think a thought and some stereotypical views as "comfortable" to do. In reality, this poll is clear that women are not really that ready to share in the domestic life and parenthood with their peers. For lack of trust, jealousy of the children, and a sense omnipotence. Who knows. One thing is for sure though, if we are far behind in Italy on social policies and equal opportunities, responsibilities we have a good women, too. Exactly 7,551,599.
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